Over accomodating mother in law

But then again, Suzy had never really encountered an extreme narcissist.Thus, nothing could have prepared her for the events that were about to unfold.

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Suzy stated that she wanted to try to empathize with her MIL’s viewpoint, so she felt a sit down conversation would help her understand and also clarify her own point of view.

Most of all, Suzy hoped that having a reasonable discussion could put her relationship with her MIL on a firm foundation.

Steve’s mother insisted on visiting them for several weeks, without Steve’s father, so that his mother could “help” around the house.

Steve’s mother insisted that they could not live without her help since they had a small child.

Suzy and Steve agreed that they would sit at the table with his mom, address the behavior that bothered both of them the most, explained why it bothered them, and then ask Steve’s Mom if they could hear her side and call a truce.

Suzy was hurt and angry but still wanted to negotiate a new relationship with her mother-in-law that was based on love and respect.But, this was not the reason Suzy was a seeking a divorce.The events that Suzy recounted next took me by surprise since they are not common in normal mother-in-law and daughter in law relationships.Furthermore, no matter how much they dodged the topic, Steve’s mother would not take no for answer.Steve’s father and brother compounded this pressure, and so Steve’s mother came to stay.Note: After seeing some of the comments about my last article on narcissism, I felt like this would be a timely piece.

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