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Are you looking for a sober dating experience,a new love interest, new friends and/or romance?Sober & Single is an internet website for sober singles looking for love, dating and romance; people whose common bond is their desire to date others who wish to be in an alcohol-free relationship.I've never gone to a meeting, and I wouldn't have the slightest clue on what to expect, but I know that he does have a friend that he goes with already, so it's good to know that he does have someone, besides myself, that supports him in this. when i first started dating him i didnt know how bad he actually was... When I say alcoholics can have a life and go into establishments that serve alcohol, I didn't mean they can suddenly drink alcohol non-alcoholically. I commend anyone who takes a pro-active stance on their addiction and works to overcome it. I know its an irrational thing, but I really cant trust anyone who drinks more than socially and I would always fear that theyd relapse.
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Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc. a "true alcoholic" involved in the AA program, works through twelve steps and generally gets an AA sponsor for support. You do not go into AA and after time become "recovered." AA does not "teach one" how to be able to drink non-alcoholically. It teaches you how to live life on life's terms and helps you discover how and why you drank that way to begin with.
It has shown me a different way to live life on life's terms. There are so many misconceptions of alcoholism and AA in general. but he always knew that he didnt want to slip back to his old habit..the time we have been back together 9months now.. he knows he can drink and then not have anything for months on end.... the next day see if he could do more then the day before.... I'm glad to hear about others challenges in this area, and what has been done to work through the problem. go to places that dont serve alcohol if possible.... he has to totally get that urge out of his system before even thinking of picking up a glass... he was never tempted to go and place a order at the bar... Going to an open AA meeting may be WAY TOO MUCH for a particular partner.
It would behoove you to learn more (depending on how much you care about this guy). :) (Meaning dating him.) You will know within time as to how serious he is about his new life. he will know within himself when he is ready to take that next step to even be able to walk into a bar/pub/club.... he has to come to terms with the peson he was before the program... However, if you are serious about this person and having a life together...
An alcoholic, who is working the program and secure with his or her sobriety, can very well be with someone who drinks. i decided I would just refrain from putting myself in that situation since it is a sensitive issue.
If they are truly working the AA program the way that it is suggested, they will be able to make SOBER decisions and decide to leave a relationship or establishment if they feel that is in their best interest. I dont mean to diminish the efforts of those recovering, and I am not assuming they will all relapse, just trying not to reopen issues from the past. I'm a recovering alcoholic myself, and if I'm at a restaurant or somewhere else where alcohol is served, it doesn't bother me.
And, it is a matter of self control, discipline, and how serious they are. he has even tested himself and has gone out of it quite well... Furthermore, I would strongly suggest NOT offering alcohol to an alcoholic!Tags: Adult Dating, affair dating, sex dating